Have you ever had a crush on a big beautiful woman before? Probably! But did you know that depending on the type of woman she is, you might consider taking different approaches?
Some men make the mistake of thinking that BBWs are easy game. Not so! BBWs are in demand and there are many subtle nuances you might want to be aware of, before you try dating one using the same old tricks. The same thing can be said for Big Handsome Men, who are also growing in popularity, especially on social media.
In this discussion, we’re going to share some tips in dating BBWs and BHMs, what you might try next time you start a conversation.
Be Kinder to BBWs and Be Rewarded
Remember that curvy women are not self-conscious and they’re not hung-up on losing weight or looking like other girls. For this reason, don’t bring up the BBW issue at all, except to say that you think SHE is gorgeous.
Be careful about hyper-focusing on how you like all big girls or “BBWs”. She might be insulted, thinking you’re fetishizing bigger women, rather than liking her for who she is – her body, her personality!
Don’t make her plus-size figure a topic at all. You can say you’re attracted to her, but try to talk about more interesting things than just lust.
Remember not to make losing weight or working out or dieting a thing. That’s her business. Don’t bring it up unless she does, and if you like the way she looks, then don’t say anything negative or reinforce anything she says about herself that sounds negative.
On the other hand, you can score points with her by supporting her personal goals and being a good friend, in addition to a great date. Remember, it’s her body, her choice. If you like her, be excited about helping her become whoever she wants to be!
Give BHM a Chance
On the opposite end of the field we have Big Handsome Men. It’s not just a fetish or even a “daddy” thing anymore. Many women just happen to agree that gym rats and dudes with a fantastic body tend to be a little full of themselves.
In contrast, when a BHM is totally into a woman and honored to be with her, and is doing his best to show her a good time, that’s very attractive. That’s the kind of date a woman wants.
A guy who’s all about lust and showing off his perfect physique is not necessarily what women want. What about emotional connection?
It’s time that BHMs start being more confident in themselves and realizing, a lot of women, BBWs and non-BBWs, may want to date them just as well.
Lastly, try using a BBW dating app to filter out all the wrong types of single people – the ones who might not appreciate curves and a tummy. With a BBW / BHM dating app, you can rest assured nobody is judging you. Everyone has a positive attitude and is more interested in hanging out and talking. That’s a great environment to be in and it helps you relax and enjoy the date!
